This way, she would feel important to you and that you are not hiding anything or anyone from her. Men are good at making girls feel special during the dating stage, but once they go steady or after a year of being together, their treatment towards them turns sour. Therefore, make sure that you remain sweet and affectionate to your girl all throughout your relationship. Once you have broken a promise, the woman you promised to will be disappointed and think you are a liar.
It will be hard for her to trust you again, so think before you vow to do something. Instead, tell her immediately before anyone else does. If she knows it from another source, she would feel you are hiding something from her. Openness is an essential factor in a healthy relationship because you can honestly tell each other how you feel.
It is not good if you cannot trust each other with your thoughts. If you want your girlfriend to be honest with you, make the first move by opening up your feelings and secrets to her. Trust begets trust. That is why make her feel that you completely trust her. In case you have done something wrong that could hurt her, be humble by sincerely apologizing and assuring her you regret it. You explain your side, but avoid making excuses to get away from the situation.
Excuses can actually make you look defensive and guilty. It takes time to build trust. Therefore, just be consistent and honest with her all the time.
But girls love to see constant efforts — they want to feel sincerity, patience, and persistence. Trust is fragile. It is hard to gain it, but it can be broken in just one slip. This way, you can be trustworthy to anybody, and it will not be hard to get anyone to believe in you. Girls want attention from there significant other,but they should not have to feel scared or worried about a guy cheating on them. Sometimes you have to Re-assure your partner that there the only one you want and no one else but them.
Hi kindly help me to make my girlfriend happy she tell me an not Romantic… And which suprise. Or gifts you can you can give as a surprise. You must be the one in a million to actually be morally and ethically grounded enough to mean what you say and say what you mean. But thank you for sharing these words with us.
I am definitely going to try them and see if I can win her back. To regain trust. If she starts out not trusting me because of something some other guy has done, then we will not be together. If she thinks I need to earn her trust, she has put herself on a pedestal above me, and we will not be together. I will be observing her too. I will not discuss it with her. I will not tell her why — she knows. The only thing I will say is we are over.
Women are not the only gender who get to have standards. We act. Firstly I wanna say that I appreciate all the good things you are doing for me. I am so proud of me be your special one. I am sorry for all of things I make you feel sorrow.
There will be many difficulties and I believe that we can pass over all of them with our strongest loving kindness. There is no doubt that you are in my life and I am be with you forever. You are the world to me since one of october midnight that the day I spoke out I love you. Now only you could give me strength that anyone can.
I love you more and more every minute. Oh darling I can not even show how much you mean to me while I am writing this letter. Thank you darling. Basically, women are crazy, and we are not. Although many women seem to be very annoyed by it, it's generally depicted as one of those cute and innocuous differences between the sexes. And perhaps it would be, if it were limited to feelings about the dishes or taking out the garbage. But, this distrust can be pervasive, spreading to a general skepticism about the truthfulness of their own accounts of their own experiences.
If women's feelings aren't really to be trusted, then naturally their recollections of certain things that have happened to them aren't really to be trusted either. This is part of the reason why it took an entire high school football team full of women for some of us to finally just consider that Bill Cosby might not be Cliff Huxtable. It's how, despite hearing complaints about it from girlfriends, homegirls, cousins, wives, and classmates, so many of us refused to believe how serious street harassment can be until we saw it with our own eyes.
It's why we needed to see actual video evidence before believing the things women had been saying for years about R. There's an obvious parallel here with the way many men typically regard women's feelings and the way many Whites typically regard the feelings of non-Whites. Personal accounts and expressions of feelings are rationalized away; only "facts" that have been carefully vetted and verified by other Whites and certain "acceptable" Blacks are to be believed.
So how do we remedy this? And can it even be remedied? I don't know. This distrust of women's feelings is so ingrained, so commonplace that I'm not even sure we men realize it exists. I can do one thing, though. The next time my wife tells me how upset she is about something I'm not sure she should be that upset about, trust her.
After five months of marriage, eight months of being engaged, and another year of whatever the hell we were doing before we got engaged, it's the least I can do. This post originally appeared on VerySmartBrothas. News U. Politics Joe Biden Congress Extremism. Special Projects Highline. HuffPost Personal Video Horoscopes. Follow Us. At the end of the day, this is no competition. If you are not seeing eye to eye, and you are seeing that there are some bad behaviors, then you need to call it out, and you need to move on quickly if there is no change.
If you observe unhealthy patterns and you ignore them, then this is why you continue to have these failed relationships. I f you think that women only want you for your money, you are wrong, and let me be honest, honey, you are dating the wrong people.
There are awful women out there. You have to forgive your past relationships and the women that have shown up in your life to move on. You have to let go of the hurt, the anger, the mistrust, whatever it is that lead you currently do not trust that woman now is something that you have to work on to let go because if you do not let go of this energy, you will continue to attract this energy.
At the end of the day, you want a woman that you sexually desire, that brings you up, that motivates you, and has the confidence to show you the woman that she wants to be for you. This is a woman who values you, someone who cherishes you, and someone you can build a foundation with, and someone that is going to love you for who you are, right?
You have to really take the time to sit with yourself and identify the qualities and values that you want in a woman.
Determine what the deal breakers are and what are not. This will help you become conscious of your relationships and help you spot out red flags. You can take the time and opportunity to see things differently. If you have a woman in your life that is trustworthy focus more on that as this is huge when it comes to the law of attraction.
If you feel as though you need more time to get over another relationship or some past incidences that have happened to you, then take the time to heal. The best thing about life is we all experience things the same way but at different times in life. Does being along sound better to you or do you want to have love in your life?
Forgiving others is what helps you move forward. Forgiveness is something you do for yourself. This is where you can identify red flags early on. Being honest and upfront with what you want can come of value to a woman who deserves your honesty.
I made another blog about first date conversations that you should check out. Being betrayed never feels good. You become the better man. Let me give you a head start. Believe that trustworthy women are out there and you will find one. You have to change your mindset, and you have to adapt to seeing behaviors, patterns, red flags, and understand that you have the power to attract what it is that you want as a man.
If you struggle with this, I encourage you to book a one-on-one session with me so I can get to the bottom of this with you to help you attract that woman that you desire and stop messing with these phony women, or messing with these non-satisfying relationships, and really get to your desired goal once and for all.
Apollonia Ponti, an international certified coach and founder of apolloniaponti. She works with men to attract the woman they desire, build confidence, master their attraction skills and helps rebuild relationships. To get real results with women NOW! Change your life and master your attraction. Book a coaching session here.
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